She Removed The Mask From A Married Mans Secret Game

The toughest breakup I’ve ever faced was with Abeku. It struck me like a lightning bolt when one of his friends said, “I think it’s better you know the truth and make your own decision than to cling to the false hope my friend is giving you. He’s been married for almost two years now. His wife is away because she’s studying in the Netherlands.”

I didn’t want to accept it. He had shown me wedding photos and even videos he recorded on his phone during his vows. I believed I had found a man who would become my husband. After dating for nearly a year, he affectionately called me ‘Wifee.’

When I confronted him, his only excuse was, “I thought you would say no if you knew I was married.” Such selfishness!

It was tough afterward, but I managed to get through it. I coped with my pain, holding my head high, knowing I had done nothing wrong. My only fault was believing in a deceitful man’s lies. Life goes on.

One evening, I arrived early at the mall to meet my friends. Instead of going inside to watch people pass by, I decided to wait in my car and listen to some music. Shortly after, a sleek Benz parked next to me. Moments later, a man stepped out.

I took a good look at him because he was exactly my type. Well-dressed with a confident aura, but as soon as I noticed the wedding ring on his finger, my heart sank. He walked a few steps toward the mall entrance but then stopped abruptly.

He returned to his car, got inside, and a few seconds later, emerged again. I couldn’t help but follow his movements. My eyes landed on his finger once more, and this time, the ring was gone. “Hmm, the ring is missing. This man is up to no good. Why would he come back just to take off his ring?” I thought.

I turned off my engine and walked behind him into the mall. He was talking on his phone the entire time, likely asking his date where she was seated. I trailed him until he reached a table where a beautifully dressed woman was waiting. They embraced, laughed, and hugged again.

I took a seat a few meters away, observing the situation closely. I wanted to confirm what was happening. As a woman, I know how a woman behaves around a man she’s dating.

Her closeness, ease, and the way she kept touching him revealed everything. She was his girlfriend—his unsuspecting victim.

My friends call me a drama queen, but I wasn’t going to let my love for drama ruin anyone’s night. I felt that God had led me to that moment because He knew I could save another soul from a man’s treacherous waters. It was divine intervention, and I had to act.

I stood up and approached their table with a wide smile. Looking at the man, I said, “Hello, nice to meet you. Sorry to interrupt, but may I have a word with her?” He smiled back, glanced at the lady, and sensing her confusion, said, “I hope there’s no problem.” I replied, “No, not at all. She’s someone I know, but it’ll take a while for her to remember me, so I’ll excuse you.” They both laughed.

The girl followed me to the side, and I broke the news to her: “Look, I don’t know you, but a drama just unfolded before my eyes, and I thought you should know. The guy in front of you is married. He parked next to my car and came out wearing a wedding ring. He went back in and returned without it. I followed him here, and lo and behold, he was coming to meet you.”

She was taken aback. “Are you sure about what you’re saying?” she asked. “I’m absolutely certain of what I saw. I can even take you to his car.” She was restless, as if something was burning inside her, reminiscent of the feeling I had when Abeiku’s friend revealed his marriage. She was anxious and began to talk rapidly. “I don’t know if I should believe you or not, but I’ll find out. We’ve been dating for four months now. I’m not saying he’s a saint, but it’s hard for me to believe you.”

I didn’t want to say too much. I wanted her to be smart and discover the truth for herself. She asked for my number, and I gave it to her.

I didn’t return to my table because my friends called to say they had arrived. When I met them, I recounted the entire incident, and they were excited. They wanted to know if the girl had found out, so we went back to where they were seated, but they were gone. The night ended abruptly.

Two weeks later, I received a call, and the voice said, “Thank you for saving me. It could have been worse if not for your timely information.” I recognized it was her. I asked, “Were you able to find out?”

She replied, “Yes, that evening when you told me, I couldn’t handle it well, so he got angry and drove off. Three days later, he called to apologize and questioned why I would believe a stranger’s story, but it was too late. I had gathered enough information to confirm he was married. The sad part is, his marriage is only seven months old. That means we started dating when his marriage was just three months old.”

Selfish men! Greedy men! They want everything for themselves, even when they have the best right in front of them. Today, that stranger I met at the mall is now a sister to me. She has become an integral part of our group. As I write this, she’s comfortably lounging on a sofa, watching a movie and providing commentary. If only she knew I was writing her story…

—Akos  
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