When Your Spouse Can't Remember Their Own Sins

Three days ago, my friend paid me a visit. His girlfriend caught him in bed with another woman. He was narrating the entire saga, and my wife was right there, all ears.

My friend hadn't left yet when my wife made her comment. She said that if that girl were to forgive my friend and live with him, then she would be a fool. A total fool!

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She continued speaking and even included “chai” for emphasis. At one time she was telling me to ring up the girl and convince her to part with my friend.

“She” said, “How can a woman let a man who commits adultery, marry her? He will not change!”

I didn’t say anything, but my mind was a battlefield. Regret was the feeling I was experiencing apart from the others.

Because…

This very wife before we got married, when she was my girlfriend was unfaithful to me, but I forgave her; a year later, we got married.

So, does it mean by her saying thus, that I was a fool for forgiving her? This is very painful for me. Since that day I have not talked to her.

What is the biggest pain? She is still asking, “What is the reason for the silent treatment? Is it your friend’s problem?”

Can she not remember what she did to me? Has she perhaps wiped it out of her mind?

To be truthful, my dear brother, my heart has been broken into pieces. This marriage holds no more charm for me.

Leaving is my desire. However, I have to take one more step before I go.

I feel like it is necessary to do a DNA test on the child. Do you think I am right?

—Mark

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