Love Story Traded Like A Failed Discount Offer

Being raised happy and independent, I have never thought of taking any chance to beg for anything from any man for survival. Several men have approached me and some come with good promises that can please the heart for while later they harm. When a man come what I expect from him is just only action match with his word.

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These can be done to me by action. One is supped to take chances offers first. If it’s a gift that you thought is nice for me then do it without being forces or looking like in needed it most or asking. All this should be done from heart.  In this small story I will picture in a man called Samwel whom is the case of the above description. I have never asked anything absolutely he can be my witness and I wish not to ask anything willing or not willing.

I love him how present he has been to my life in shaping me to be who I might be now. I love his character traits and he always tries so much to check on me everyday and is really giving me energy after tough day with encouragement. His drawback is what he says most of the time.

At some instances he brags on me with praises like, ‘I have never seen such good girl, I like your trait of not asking any money. All other girls that I have met asked money nearly I depleted.” Or this can be interpreted, “My finance would be very low if I did not meet you, give me any example who does not need money except you?”

 His statement the make me feed pissed off and offending. I failed to understand this praise where they fall, compliment or being the least girl how demands nothing at all.

To be factual he does not give or like or freely.  Since I met him in have never gotten any surprise gift nor chocolates to eat.  The impressive thing he can say is that he saw it and thought about me so much but nothing else. I might be very harsh but it’s true that he does not even offer the emotion support since he is very careful as if the money, he has itself frighten him.

I am now at the point where my anxiety ahs started raising so much.

I have taken down my brain and measure it and relocate this reasoning, what if Samwel know that I do not ask for any money but not for love at all? My other thoughts were, what if some days he wins big money or fortune should he recognize me or the other woman they are on his category?  Maybe not giving at all can be his true nature or identity at all?

Take a second and think about it, reason with me is this statement real and reasonable?

Some people say instinct are right and some feeling gives you they true identity of the outcome without even asking any question. Is my overthink of this whole story worse? from simple statement that are spoken by Samwel to me like, “It’s your nature not asking anything.” I answer it simple and clear in whisper, “Yes, this probably is the reason for picking you. “This time I feel like holding him tightly and shaking him roughly and tell him,” Samwel, you might be a bit generous remember no one will come to you.”

Since I am immortal in can not tell what happens in the future, what I probably believe in is that, love should be treated well not appear as a deal. As for me I hate being treated like discount that failed in a fair trail. 

Kindy I am asking for your view son this matter and my feeling toward this issue of love, what have I done wrong ? what should be done?

—Mabel

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