He Broken The Trust But Still Wants A Chance

I have never had sexual relations with a man before, but I do have a boyfriend. I picked him as he was the only gentleman who would hold the line until marriage. All the other guys I met turned their backs on me as soon as I said that I was not ready to share myself with them. Even with the great attraction I had towards them, my Christian upbringing would not let me compromise.

Peter is not another man. He promised me he would wait as long as it needed for us to be in the church. That is why I loved him.

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He never made me feel pressured with anything physical during the whole time he has been my partner. He gives me moral support every time I ask for it. He never offered me money, but he sometimes sends me small amounts which I appreciate a lot because I know he is not able to give more than that.

He has taken me to his home and introduced me to his friends. Not long ago, he asked, “When can I come to your home and then we can start talking about marriage?” I said, “Wait up, I am not ready to get married yet. I want to get my degree first.” Just as always, he comprehended.

I was reassured of my position in his life, but now I am not so sure. There is a change in our relationship. I found out that he was seeing another woman while still with me. He neither denied nor tried to twist my words when I called him out on it. Instead, he showed sorrow.

"Please, I have no other choice but to plead. I use her only for sex. That's it. No emotions at all."

His excuse for adultery is difficult for me to believe because I have had doubts about their relationship for quite some time, even when he was telling me that she was just a friend. I feel let down and wounded as well.

I am thinking of breaking up with him, but he is still asking for a chance. He says he will become a new person and promises to give all his attention to me from now on. Since this is my first time being in a relationship, I am in a dilemma whether to believe him or not. 

—Kabiyesi

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