Easy Ways To Assist You Spot Untrustworthy Men

Trust is the foundation of any partnership. The process of finding a trustworthy and reliable life partner is not easy at all. The first step is finding a man who can be considered trustworthy for real. Look for a person who says “Yes” and really means it and whose “No” also means “No.” All of us are human and at times it is very easy to be dishonest. You lie, I lie. But don’t be that way in a relationship, rather; find someone who puts honesty above everything else. When the truth is the easiest path to take, how on earth do you find a man who will not mislead you? I can’t tell you for sure, but I can provide some hints.

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The hints are as follows:

1. He always tells you to check with X.

X is his closest friend. He gives a long explanation and ends with, “You can ask X; he was there.” If you ever doubt his answer, it should raise doubts about your boyfriend’s best friend’s truthfulness. He may ask his friend to verify whether he took or did something, be careful, he may be lying. If you hear him often telling you to check things with his friends, that’s a warning sign.

2. He says he didn’t see your call.

He missed your call and for some reason, his phone isn’t recording missed calls. Isn’t that a bit odd? When he is with you he can’t seem to get off his phone but when you are not around he just misses your calls. Doesn’t that sound a bit suspect? What’s more, he has turned off last seen and blue ticks on WhatsApp so you don’t know when he has read your texts. It feels a bit like distrust, doesn’t it?

3. He acts as though he’s friendless.

He calls the ones you've met as necessitating friendship, yet he hasn't presented any of his own to you. He assures you, "You are my only friend." Although it may sound like a cliché, you could be thinking, "Who is he talking to? Who is he texting on WhatsApp?" This should be a reason for your concerns.

4. He is unable to detach himself from his phone.

It’s a date you’ve given him at the expense of your time and probably the most exciting part of your day, going on a date with him. You want him there, and he is the center of your universe. But the only time you have a clear view of him is when his phone screen is lit. You catch him smiling at the texts and, in his defense, he says "nobody else" makes him happy. You desire his full attention, but it looks like he is battling with his phone for his attention.

5. He cannot tell who is calling when you ring from another number.

It is not a matter that he does not recognize your voice; it is only that he is not willing to play the 'guess who' game. He will respond, "I can’t guess, I’m always wrong when I guess." He doesn’t mind being wrong; he is afraid of the worst-case scenario. "What if I say it’s Lucy and it’s really Lucia, then I’m in trouble. Besides, why would I even say Lucy when Lucia knows we’re not talking anymore?"

To summarize, it is all straightforward.

6. He provides lengthy narratives for the question “Do you have a girlfriend?”

You are confident about him and want to enter into a romantic relationship. One thing left to verify is that he has no girlfriend to begin with. He should reply in a plain manner yes or no and nothing more than that, no sharing of stories about his past relationships. If he is still reliving the past with his exes, then he might not be willing to let go, and emotionally he might still be attached to her.

7. He considers loving names his prerogative.

It is cute, for sure, when your guy refers to you as someone his heart loves with pet names. It gives a signal that you are important to him. But, all the same, that you are called "apple pie" or "cupcake," do not forget that you do have a proper name which is more appropriate to be used, especially in cases where you are talking about marriage. In case he is persistent with the nicknames, he could either have completely lost your real name or he just doesn't want it to get mixed up with someone else's. When he says your name, it means you are a part of his life and he is very sure of it.

8. He asserts that his parents are hard to please.

There are reasons that could make you attract a man who still lives with his parents, and that wouldn’t be a problem. But if he is reluctant to bring you home due to the fear of his parents’ disapproval, then that is a red flag. He might put it this way that his past relationship ended because he had introduced the girl to his parents and it was a disaster. If your get-togethers are always in the park or at friends’ houses, then you should start doubting your trust toward him.

9. He asks your number and then drowns you with love.

Take in charge the men that ask for your number straight away. If they are shouting out love and loyalty within a few minutes, it is probably that they are doing the same with others. If they got your number, they might have already taken several others as well.

10. He has condoms in his pocket.

He has a three-pack of condoms but he usually doesn't carry more than one. Where do the other ones go? He could possibly claim he gave them to X but if you would like to check, just go by clue number one. He is always having them but you don't remember your last time when he used it. Who is that for? He might have told you about being at an HIV/AIDS workshop, well then it is up to you to find out the truth in his words.

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