Creeping Behaviour Of My Husband After In-Laws

Some times back my husband receive a call from his nephew informing him to help him after a long time of hustling for almost four years. He needed transport and come to see us after a tough life hustling. As per any help rendered to cross family is a normal thig. My husband sent him some money but I didn’t know that he his nephew intention was to stay with us.  

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The boy came over, when I notice he has reached he was being settling in. I inquired from my husband about this, and the response was cool and calm, He will be leaving as soon because he thought passing by.” The boy is still with us up today for several days and weeks now.

One day at evening I thought its nice for a person to ask. I thought its nice if I ask my husband about the issue. This time he was very angry and he decided to walk out of the room without proper clarification on this issue and I was so much shocked. Later that days, I thought it’s nice to text him over the phone and cool him down but things did not work as expected.

For some times I was so much socked and hurt, nearly my heart stop after knowing it’s my husband’s response. Here are some of the texts that he sent me vie text:

You better think twice in this life about your bad fashion, we will not live this way.  I live with my own brother in the past after your coming, nothing to tell me clarify. I thought you were the nice lady not greed yet I have seen this and I see you want to separate our family but you can not.

I can not blame anyone about the text since I know how my husband could chat and even the spelling of his conversation Not good at all in constructing simple and complex sentences using proper grammar and punctuation skilful. Also, when it comes to the tone, I musted it like a cleaver child excelling in his academic.  From my end after analysis of this message clearly, I can be mad to say it was him, probably it was his nephew. One thing hurts most is that some things need no compromise how can my husband allow his nephew to do such. He probably decides to give his phone to the nephew so that he cans talk to me that way.

This is making me feel suffocating in this life....

I asked, but now my husband is totally behaving as if the story way a shock to him.  As a wife I have never demanded more and something big in his life rather good communication and proper respect only. I did not suggest anything about sending his nephew away rather a simple question. In our home we are supposed to make the decision based on us not family rather after he realized this talk was going to yields this result, he corned me very first. He should understand now this home it is our not his probably as he might be thinking.

I have got the challenge on how to address this issue right now. This gives the feeling of disrespected and even the emotional torture based on the feeling I got now. Some advice could help if someone suggest the best way to handle this?

—Amanda

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